When Paying Attention to Your Feelings Tells You Everything You Need to Know

I knew something was off – but I did not want to accept it. I’m lucky to have a good therapist. But when she says, “Pay attention to your feelings,” I know something is bubbling…

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The Harmful Lie That Women ‘Chose Career Over Kids’

The idea that women like me “chose career over kids” isn’t just wrong — it’s insulting.We didn’t trade babies for boardrooms. We didn’t coldly choose conference calls over lullabies. We fought for both — harder…

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A Year After Letting Go of Parenthood: Grief, Relief, and What Comes Next

I just got back from a work trip in Europe, one of the few places where I always feel like I can breathe. Somewhere between the airport and the quiet café in Milan, I realized…

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Childfree Not By Choice: Why the Term Matters More Than Ever

The word childless carries a heavy, painful weight—one that suggests something is missing, that a woman without children is defined by what she lacks rather than who she is. But for those of us who…

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A Celebration of Love and Resilience: The Adoption Day

The parking lot buzzed with life—a bouncy house, a face painter, and an array of food options ranging from pizza to cookies, chips, and veggie trays. It felt like a children’s birthday party, and in…

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