Don’t Call Me “Childless”: Empowering Alternatives to the word “Childless”

I hate the word “childless”. It makes me feel less and not whole. “Childless” weighs on me. To me, it implies that I decided my own fate and that I did not want to have a…

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How Breathwork Helped Me Heal (And Why It Might Help You Too)

I wasn’t looking for breathwork. I wasn’t searching for some transformational healing method or the next must-try trend in wellness. My shelves already sag under the weight of personal development books. I’ve downloaded the meditation…

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More to Life Than Children? Why That Phrase Hurts More Than It Helps

“Stephanie, there is more to life than children.” That’s what my ex-husband said to me when I told him that all my IVF options had failed with my current husband. I had nothing left—no more…

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He Called Me “Mommy”

My body froze when Nolan first called me “Mommy.” He was almost six years old and his sister was two. They were supposed to be with us for two weeks while the state completed a…

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Beyond Pity: The Empowered Narrative of Childfree not by Choice

Women who are childfree not by choice are beyond the narrative of pity. When I stopped IVF and ended my parenthood journey, I was worried about people pitying me. The stigma of infertility seemed unbearable…

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Huffington Post Article: My Big Reveal

Huffington Post article—on June 6, 2025, I finally shared the truth: I’m no longer pursuing parenthood. This article was meant more for my friends and family who stopped asking me questions about my parenthood journey.…

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