Not-Less
A space to talk about the emotional journey of infertility, fostering and adoption failure, the struggles of letting go, and finding peace in a life that didn’t go as planned.
My Journey

I Thought My Strong Will Was Enough to Survive Infertility — Here’s What I Learned

I Thought My Strong Will Was Enough to Survive Infertility — Here’s What I Learned

I thought I could survive infertility on sheer will. I was strong, tough, resilient, a bit punchy when I felt I was being wronged or when I was trying to protect someone I loved. I…

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Challenging Stigmas

When the Miracle Doesn’t Come: The Shame No One Talks About After IVF

When the Miracle Doesn’t Come: The Shame No One Talks About After IVF

Did I Not Pray Hard Enough? The Unspoken Shame Behind ‘Miracle Baby’ Culture I used to believe in the miracle baby. That one more round of IVF, one more sign from the universe, one more…

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Challenging Stigmas

More to Life Than Children? Why That Phrase Hurts More Than It Helps

More to Life Than Children? Why That Phrase Hurts More Than It Helps

“Stephanie, there is more to life than children.” That’s what my ex-husband said to me when I told him that all my IVF options had failed with my current husband. I had nothing left—no more…

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Challenging Stigmas

Toxic “Never Give Up”

Toxic “Never Give Up”

“Never give up.” Wasn’t that what we’ve been told all our lives? Weren’t we told that “Losers never quit and quitters never win”? Well, I’m calling that the “Toxic Never Give Up” culture. Sometimes, you…

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