The Harmful Lie That Women ‘Chose Career Over Kids’

The idea that women like me “chose career over kids” isn’t just wrong — it’s insulting.We didn’t trade babies for boardrooms. We didn’t coldly choose conference calls over lullabies. We fought for both — harder…

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Toxic “Never Give Up”

“Never give up.” Wasn’t that what we’ve been told all our lives? Weren’t we told that “Losers never quit and quitters never win”? Well, I’m calling that the “Toxic Never Give Up” culture. Sometimes, you…

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Childfree Not By Choice: Why the Term Matters More Than Ever

The word childless carries a heavy, painful weight—one that suggests something is missing, that a woman without children is defined by what she lacks rather than who she is. But for those of us who…

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We Can All Learn from Rebecca Minkoff’s Insult on RHONY

My guilty pleasure is watching the Real Housewives franchise. I like Orange County, New York, Salt Lake City and some others. I am not ashamed. But what was shameful was the interaction between Rebecca Minkoff…

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Let’s Rethink “Childless” – Kamala Harris and the Labels We Need to Leave Behind

As someone who identifies as a “non-bio mom,” I’ve always felt a tension around the term “childless.” The word is loaded, suggesting that a woman without biological children is somehow incomplete. But here’s the thing:…

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