From Anti–Valentine’s Day to Neutral Valentine’s Day

A CFNBC Reflection on Love, Laughter, and Letting Go I went from being an Anti–Valentine’s Day person to being a Neutral Valentine’s Day person. In my adult years, I learned from my ex-husband that Valentine’s…

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Journaling Helped Me Heal After Infertility and Fostering/Adoption Loss

I didn’t begin journaling to process infertility grief. In the early days, it wasn’t even on my radar. I was still debating whether to foster again, still hoping a different agency might open a door…

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What “Failure” Means to an IVF Woman — Why That Word Hurts

I’ve always hated the word “failure”. It’s sharp. Final. Heavy. And as a former IVF woman and a perfectionist, I hate it even more. For years, my life revolved around cycles, medications, numbers, hope. When…

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Beyond Pity: The Empowered Narrative of Childfree not by Choice

Women who are childfree not by choice are beyond the narrative of pity. When I stopped IVF and ended my parenthood journey, I was worried about people pitying me. The stigma of infertility seemed unbearable…

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